Happy Thanksgiving! I wish everyone a wonderful and safe holiday.

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Ping.fm is today's accomplishment. Did I do it right?

Life's Not So Bad After All

Isn't it wonderful when a man suddenly realizes the life he has isn't so bad after all? I think men, most of all, feel a failure when their comfort zone is threatened. And, like George, go through a spell when they feel like they shouldn't have been born, or worse, don't deserve the loving wife and beautiful kids. Hard times are emotionally draining.

It's A Wonderful Life is one of my favorite movies. I never tire of it. Poor George who constantly has to forgo his dreams. Do you think in the end he really felt like he'd been cheated? I don't. His brother said it all - he's the richest man in Bedford Falls. We all should be so lucky to have people who will give all they have to help a friend.

We often forget what is really important when life knocks you in the gut and you can't breathe. I know I've been guilty of it this year with losing so many people in my life.

I have so much to be thankful for.

All the comforts of having a roof over my head, food on the table and clothes on my back can bring. A family that is fairly healthy and happy.

What ails we have don't slow us down, much.

I have a husband who loves me no matter what stupid choices I make. He just seems look beyond them. Sometimes I wonder why.

I've made some wonderful author friends who've been supportive not only in my writing, but with my personal ups and downs.

My book sales are fairly consistant and I have a new book coming out next year as well as three short stories in anthologies.

I have a wonderful relationship with our pets, and our wild pets. They give me so much pleasure. Even Faith, though she passed away two weeks ago today. I have pictures and memories that will always keep her in my heart.

I have the best mother-in-law; she is one of my dearest friends.

The simpliest things tickle me. 'coz, I'm a pot hole...sooooo, k bye' never fails to crack me up.

Thanksgiving day, I'll be spending with my husband's side of the family and our immediate family. Usually around 22 of us, sometimes more. We'll have all the traditional foods: turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes and gravy, candied yams, oyster dressing, sage dressing, green casserole. I have a dish which I'm required to bring or I'm not allowed entry. lol It's quite simple and a recipe given to me from an aunt when I was in junior high. What the original name of it is, I have no idea, but my family calls it 'Fluff'; very simply it contains three ingredients.

Strawberry Banana Cottage Whip [my name for it]

large container of small curd cottage cheese

small container of cool whip

large box of strawberry/banana jello

Thaw the cool whip, then add all ingredients in a bowl and mix well; cover and refrigerate. Best to make the night before.

Despite my aunt's insistent that you can only use orange jello for this, I've tried every flavor of jello with it and it's all good. My favorite is the orange followed by lemon and lime. The family prefers the strawberry/banana.

There will also be specialty items my oldest niece will make for her sister. Desserts, items made with soy and gluten free. Last year, she made an apple crisp for her that was amazing.

And we all must watch Grandma Ann. If we don't, she'll be pigging out on the sweets when our backs are turned; quite comical the way the sneaks like a small child. She's diabetic.

Oh, and the horses -- they go crazy when the kids show up. It's extra treat time. You think my pets are spoiled. It runs in the family.

I love the holidays. I do don't much of the cooking for Thanksgiving. I fix the 'Fluff', candied yams and sage stuffing. About the only thing I do different with my stuffing is I don't use dried bread -- it's so much better not to. Christmas is where I cook up a storm. I've found some new delish recipes to try this year. I'll share those as we near the best day of the year.

Today is the kickoff for the Christmas season in our little community. All sorts of goings on downtown; Christmas parade and the lighting of the trees; the local florist, which is quite a large place, has it's Grand Christmas Opening -- I'll be going with mom. I'm quite pumped.

I wish you all a very happy and fulfilling Thanksgiving.

Bekki

http://bekkilynn.net/

Earning Squirrly's Trust

Book Pirates

This is low and lower.

Monday morning, I received an email, as many have, about a known pirating site Astatalk. My books have never been on this site, but I checked once again and no. While this is a fantastic feeling, several authors I know did have books there. I posted it on my facebook where only those on my friend list can see my posts as well as emailed those in my address book.

I went on with life and Tuesday evening, checked my email and one of the google alerts said one of my books was now on this wretched site. I checked it out and low and behold, it had a download link for several countries. Also the name of the perpretraitor of this crime.

I filled out the take-down form with all the information they require and submitted it, then turned around and filed a complaint with the Internet Crime Center, who then sent me a link so I am to update my complaint as need be.

What is horrid about this is now I'm wondering if this Angela Williams did it for spite and why? What have I done to her? To my knowledge, I've never met her online or otherwise. Is she someone in a round about way associated with my friend list on facebook and if so, that's a lot of lists to get through to find her and eliminate her access to anything I choose to post. Or is she a recipient of a forwarded email as a result of my sent email?

The coincedence is too much to believe it's not related to my posting to help out fellow authors. This isn't the first time I've been targeted, and I'm sure it won't be the last. But this time, it's a federal crime.

Anglea Williams and all your co-horts in the illegal business of book pirating -- I hope you get your asses nailed to the wall.

5 years in federal prision and $250,000 fine each.


Bekki Lynn